Dear ladies,

I'm very disappointed with all the judgment and unthoughtful responses I've been seeing lately. I thought this was supposed to be a place where we can all express our thoughts and get help from one another NO MATTER OUR AGE. The next time you see a question being asked by obviously a young women please remind yourself that you were once young and naive too. I'd also like to let you know that schools today don't teach sex Ed as well as they should. In the schools i went through/attend It's only touched briefly; we basically learn the parts of each genders reproductive parts and their purposes and are told abstinence is the only way to prevent pregnancy 100%. We are also told that although there are other forms of birth control they're not very affective. We aren't taught how you can and can't become pregnant nor are we taught about other sexual things such as masturbation, bj's, handjobs, fingering, etc. So don't comment things like you should become more educated on these things before you consider them because not everyone is taught the things they should know and not everyone is comfortable asking say their mothers or other females in their lives about those kind of things. I mean I wasn't even comfortable talking to my mom about my period. Anyway, PLEASE remember this the next time you read a what may seem to be ridiculous question to you and go to respond negatively. Help a girl out by educating her yourself. She wouldn't be asking if she didn't need/want to know. Thanks!