you could ask her dr about jaundice. my daughter was right on the border so she was admitted back to the hospital the day after we were released. I look back at her pictures and wonder how I couldn't see she was SO yellow. with weighed feedings in the hospital I found out she wasn't able to get enough milk from breastfeeding and I didn't feel like I had much support so we switched to exclusively pumping. I actually liked it bc I knew exactly how much she was getting. she was born at 37 weeks and I had to wake her around the clock, not just at night. and that lasted about 2-2.5 months. then at her 4 month well check her weight had plateaued and the dr was concerned so we had to start waking up at night again. she was sleeping through the night starting the night she turned 3 months. after her 5 month weight check we got the okay to sleep through again but she had gotten used to the night feeding and would wake up on her own until just a few days ago she started sleeping 11-6am. she will be 6 months in 5 days. long story short, check for jaundice and don't worry, she will be able to regulate herself in just a few months. if you need tips on how to wake a stubborn sleeper let me know, my daughter was so difficult to wake sometimes and it was very hard on me. stay strong, you can do this! And personally I wouldn't listen to anyone telling me to let her sleep. it's common for newborns to sleep through feeding times but that doesn't make it a healthy choice.