So I just discovered I'm pregnant with my second child. We had been trying and were successful. However I feel horrible like I'm an insensitive person.

I have a friend who had gotten pregnant a few years ago, she made it to 23 weeks before they delivered a baby alive that passed away. Just before they lost the baby we decided to try for one but held off telling friends because of their loss. When we got pregnant with our first it would have been shortly after theirs was born so I waited a long time to tell them before I was pregnant because I didn't want to be insensitive. Couple years later they are still trying and looking into options to help with that.

My problem is only a couple of weeks ago we were discussing (my friend and I) about the baby situation and how we were trying and I was asking her how things were coming along. Fast forward I'm prego and they are still trying. I asked my bf not to say anything but he couldn't contain his excitement.

She's wonderful person and would only be happy for us but I couldn't help but feel guilt when I seen her after he told me he had told them. By no means is she a bad perspn. She's truly truly awesome but I feel bad for enjoying my happiness when I shouldn't because they have wanted nothing more then a child. I'm so conflicted.