My mother and I don't have the best relationship. With that being said, I decided through this pregnancy I wasn't going to make an effort to talking to her or having a relationship with her. In the beginning of my pregnancy when I was talking to her all she would do is cause me stress. At that point I said to myself that I don't need the stress in my life, no matter who the person was. Since then this pregnancy has been great! Recently, some things happened and she's trying to turn things around on me as if it's my fault. My husband ended up saying something to her (not being mean) and she had my brother text me trying to make me feel bad about what happened. Why on earth would you try to get your children against each other? And the fact she goes to my younger brother and tells him what's going on. I try to keep what's going on away from him because it's not his battle. It's so frustrating