So yesterday I found out my baby is a girl. Sort of. I guess. My MIL went with me to the ultrasound and she swears she saw a very clear picture of a vagina. I've posted the ultrasound twice already in the general pregnancy group and in the ultrasound group asking for sure because it doesn't sit right. It's super blurry and it looks like their may be something that looks like a penis in between the legs. The tech said she saw a vagina twice, but gave us the blurriest photo possible. Why this matters is we decided to do a stupid gender reveal cake at my baby shower in NINE DAYS. And I'm already being honest-to-god yelled at by my MIL for even suggesting it isn't a girl. I just want it to be healthy, I don't have any sort of agenda, but it does not look like a girl!! My MIL and SO and the rest of their family were desperate for a girl. I've posted about my MIL's negative comments towards me having a boy before. She also mentioned yesterday how she was 'tired of boys'. I'm so worried for my little Bean. Worried to the point of tears that everyone will resent this baby if we announce it is a girl and we're wrong. And I know they would, even my SO, though he refuses to admit it. I feel so sick to my stomach about it. The new grandparents were supposed to find out, but my parents want to be surprised, so I can't ask them to look at the picture. I'm so upset I feel so alone and worried but no one will listen. I tried to call my OB but she's out of the office today. I just needed to get this off my chest I guess. ---added this a little bit late but they told my MIL my SO was a girl too, and somehow that's her basis for me being wrong and the baby definitely being a girl.