Am I wrong?

Question

So I have two kids. My son is 7 & my daughter is 8. My bf has a 5 year old son. When we first got together I told him I didn't want more kids. For awhile he was understanding about it. He had said before he wanted another child. Lately all he has been talking about is the fact I won't give him a child. I do really love him but I'm not sure I want to have another kid. Am I being selfish? I just literally feel like I'm getting old. Tho I'm only 27. When he brings it up I just kinda disconnect from the conversation or find a way to escape the conversation. I just don't know about another kid now or ever. Is something wrong with me? Am I being selfish?

Answer

I think it's perfectly fine that you don't want anymore children. You already have 3 & they are still young. I do think with him wanting more kids & you not wanting anymore might cause issues in the future if you don't sit down together & have a serious talk about what both of you wanna do. Obviously someone in the relationship will have to sacrifice for the other to be happy or you could agree on trying for another child (for example) in a year or whatever y'all decide. I personally think it's everyone's personal preference how many (if any) children they want. I also think it's important to come up with an agreement with your partner.

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If you don't wanna another kid it's understandable but please don't call yourself old at 27 us ladies in our 30's may find it offensive... but I'm not mad cuz I know I'm not old 😁😁👍🏻

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