So a week ago today I found out I was pregnant with my partner by my side.

The only issue, my partner has only been said partner for a little over a month now. So I was 5 weeks on Thursday, we figured out we conceived on the second time of having sex. He came twice (sorry) which explains it😂.

We talked and talked for days, it was the only thing we spoke about and came to the conclusion there is no way on this planet we can kill our baby. I'm not against abortion, I just couldn't do it.

My partner, 22 and currently doing amazing in his career, climbing the ladder quicker and faster than anyone I'd ever come across. Not once did he panic, run away, tell me to get rid, he always said no matter what I'll be by your side. This absolutely amazing human being is going to the father to my first child and I am so, so glad that his kind heart is going to be the other half to our baby's heart.

However.. although I'm excited and shitting myself. I also feel sad, that people are now making derogatory comments not even behind our backs but to our faces, basically waiting for us to fail at this task of raising a child together.

I am blessed this has happened, I am now (took some time) grateful this has happened. I just feel sad people have to bring a downer to a joyous time 👶🏾🤰🏽