No Physical/Emotional Connection in our marriage.

I have been with my husband for a total of 6 years, married now for 10 months. The thing is there is no passion in our relationship, sex is medicore at best, he doesnt kiss or touch me during it and he still wont say I Love You. I gave him divorce papers which he ripped up and said we arent getting a divorce. I mean what am I supposed to do with that?! I am a very affectionate person and he's not. I have compromised myself and how I feel to make him happy but Im not. I try to try different things to enhance our physical/emotional connection but he always says I dont like that or I dont like this. At this point Im lost. I dont want to divorce but I cant continue to be unsatisified. Any thoughts?