Alright ladies, so I'm really into rough, kinky sex and BDSM and I'm constantly trying to get my man to give it to me like that. He always struggles to turn me on and I've told him what to do so many times (ie slam me against a wall etc 😂) he knows what I like but won't do what I want him to do because he's got too much of a gentle nature which is great and I'm not complaining, I'm just so sexually frustrated because I want to be damn well tied up and choked 😂

How can I really get him into this?