bd was laying on my lap last night and sits up and goes "I just can't wait for you to have a big ole belly" with this giant grin on his face. and I thought I was annoying him with daily updates on what apps say is happening with baby until one day I decided not to and on his lunch he texts me and was like "so how is blueberry cooking today? is he a raspberry yet?" I always worried the pregnancy would freak him out but he is over the moon. it wasn't a planned thing but it has definitely shown me a softer side of him and I just love it.