Was it wrong for me to be uncomfortable with this??

I didn't really know how else to describe how I felt about this situation 😂 My boyfriend and I are in college, he's garduating this year and I still have a year to go. We've been dabbling in the idea of getting an apartment next summer (not this summer) together. I say dabbling because it depends on a few things for me as I live about 5 or 6 hours away from the area we would be living.

I guess he mentioned this to his parents which I thought was strange because we hadn't solidified any plans to do it at all... we only talked about the possibility of doing it. So one thing led to another and all of a sudden his dad is suggesting that I move in with all of them... like into their house...

It's not like I dislike his family, but the whole point of us living together, at least in my mind, is to be independent from our parents and to be living our own lives. Now my boyfriend's parents have freaked him out about bills and all these extra expenses and he wants me to move in with them now instead. I told him exactly why I didn't want to do that and then my boyfriend got super upset.

I just feel like this whole conversation should never have happened. Idk, what do you ladies think about this?? Have any of you been in a similar situation? How should I proceed?