4 years and

I love sex!!! I love everything thing about sex! EVERYTHING!!!! The foreplay, anticipation of what's to come, the wet feeling I get between my legs as I get excited. The slip of his tongue.... the touch of his finger.......The throbbing of my pussy as his cock enters me..... the heat and movement of our bodies as we rock together and work up friction...the taste of sweat..... the stiffness of his shaft right before he cums....and the quiver of my body as it climaxes. I love it all!!! And I crave sex daily!!! 4 years!!! 4years!!! It has been over 4 years since my husband and I have had sex!! It all seems like a dream now. Something that once was.....is no longer is. Why!?!? I do not know. He says it is him he just doesn't have a drive. I have tried talking to him. But he gets very defensive. I have tried telling him how I feel but we always end up arguing. Tonight I tried telling him I need a release and he ignored me. This has been going on for over 4 years now. I don't want to end our marriage over petty things but then again I don't think he is being fair to me. I need sex!!! Any suggestions???