Emotional Abuse

It really upsets me how some people on this app seem to take "abuse" for granted. What I mean is - not everything is abuse... getting hurt by someone elss does not mean they are being abusive towards you - honesty does not mean abuse. Some people seem to feel emotionally abused by being rejected by someone else - no one is obligated to love you, be with you or deal with your problems, and it is not abusive to refuse to be there for you. This may seem harsh to say but one thing is being under abuse - which is a serious topic, and another thing is feeling hurt, having low self-esteem and being needy and clingy.