Should I be jealous?

Question

My husband has been offered a massage from his Mother for his birthday.  And she has selected someone who fits his attraction preference.  He's attracted to me. But I'm not in his preference. Our marriage is going through a storm right now.  And don't feel anther woman should touch him right now.  Came I in the wrong or his mom trying to cause more problems.  I get he's stressed.  But I feel its an attack.

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Wait what? Attraction preference? Is this a massage place or a "massage place?"  I've never been asked for my attraction preference....

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I'd absolutely be upset. 
I wouldn't mention it to her really. I'd tell him you have a problem with it. Talk with him about it. See what he has to say. I go with my husband to get pedicures and manicures. So maybe that's something you both could do together to just relax? 
I wouldn't mind my husband getting a massage but I wouldn't want his mom picking out someone she thinks he would be attracted to while my marriage goes through a rough patch. 
Good luck

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If I'm being completely honest I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like a nice present and I don't think you can choose who does it unless there's a problem with one of the workers or you have a preference like no males. Let's face it, the majority of people in that industry are women, she may not be attracted to him, he may be not be attracted to her, she's going to be at work etc. It doesn't sound to me like it was done to be nasty.

Should I be jealous?

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