Anal aftercare?

Question

I'm really embarrassed to ask this but I tried anal for the second time last night with my partner(the first time he only put the tip in and it hurt so bad I asked him to stop). This time he went all the way in and it hurt so bad I cried instantly. 
I have really bad hemorrhoids that bleed almost every time I go to the bathroom. I don't think anal was a good idea for me but he's really into it...
My A hole hurts really bad right now, just need some advice from experienced ladies about how to ease the pain😳😢

Answer

So you could have opened up a fissure. If pain doesn't ease in a few days, go to the doc. A fissure is a tear in the rectal tissue. As for anal, if you stretch everything properly and become comfortable with a penis sized thing in there, that usually takes 6 months to a year depending on how often you guys have anal play. Never ever go straight to the dick. Most men get frustrated with this process because that's all they want to do. Lots of lube, so much lube. Like squirt lube in there as well as coating the area. Silicon is best if you don't use condoms. Start small, something vaguely pinky/pen sized and slowly work your way into bigger things. Always be super comfy with the size you are on before moving up. If you size up to fast or go straight to the dick, it is a burning ring of fire for you. If you never receive any pleasure out of the process, please give yourself credit for trying and tell your man its not for you.

Answer

First, were you doing it properly? Lots of water-based lube, relaxed, steetching the muscles first with toys and fingers? Because if not, that's probably why you ended up getting hurt.

As far as pain is concerned, drug stores sell hemerroid cream, and a cold ice pack will help.

Answer

Just get some hemorrhoid cream. Should take care of it in a couple of days.

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