Anal aftercare?

I'm really embarrassed to ask this but I tried anal for the second time last night with my partner(the first time he only put the tip in and it hurt so bad I asked him to stop). This time he went all the way in and it hurt so bad I cried instantly.

I have really bad hemorrhoids that bleed almost every time I go to the bathroom. I don't think anal was a good idea for me but he's really into it...

My A hole hurts really bad right now, just need some advice from experienced ladies about how to ease the pain😳😢