Keeping the lady trimmed

So I recently decided I wanted to keep the ol' hedges nice and trimmed and not looking bushy. It seemed like a daunting task, for my lady bits have not been cared for before. Except; I need some help for a trimmer to be!! I want the peach casket to be nice and well cared for!! It's an intimate process where I bare all and look at myself closely. So my question is...if you shave/trim, what products do you use? So as not to feel the wrath of the prickly sting monster!! I just want some help with what to do!! Or perhaps you get waxed?? Either way. I want some help!!