Family issues

My family really dislikes my boyfriend becabecause he has a record. 90% of my family is in the police force and they don't want to hear anything I say about him. My aunt is my boss and anytime my boyfriend's name is brought up she will change the subject on a dime.

Other employees in my dept. Have done up to me and told me she asks specifics about him but she won't talk to me directly.

I let it affect my attitude and sometimes the words said affect our relationship because he is really good at reading me and cam tell when something bothers me. I love him so much and he treats me great.

What are your thoughts?