I hate it when people act like a person is tougher for birthing out a big baby. The size of the baby doesn't matter! Every mom is tough!

Maybe a different kind of tough but it's not the size of the baby that matters. My baby is only 2 lbs. but I've been on bedrest for 9 weeks in the hospital and have had to deal with the fact that my baby will definitely be in the nicu, probably be a preemie, and might have delays. He's my miracle, but his size doesn't determine strength anymore than a 10lb baby does.