I'm about to starting teaching preschool at the church we currently attend.

My fiancé just got a job offer that will require us to move 3 hours away from our church and my job.

We are planning to be married in this church. But in order to get married at the church we have to be members. If we move, we will no longer be members. And both my work and our wedding contract will be broken. It's a sticky situation He is benefiting and I am losing out by giving up my dream job and wedding. I'm so happy for him everything he has look forward to in his future. feel as though I can't be upset about losing everything. I just don't want to hold him back.