What do I do?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together close to six years. We recently moved in together, we've been planning our future together we've looked at engagement rings have been looking for a home to buy and in the midst of all this he felt that he needed to be upfront with me and tell me that in the first 6 months of our relationship he made out with not one but two girls but he's regretted it ever since and it's been tearing him apart a lot lately as we've been making our future more concrete and I just don't know how to process this. What would you all do in this situation?

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I think I'd thank him for his honesty and do my best to forgive him. It sounds like it's something he regrets and he doesn't want to start your marriage with this hanging over his head.

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I'd forgive. It was years ago. I would let him know he hurt me and it was INCREDIBLY stupid of him, but if he hasn't done it since, why destroy the future you're so close to creating?

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Forgive him. He was honest, everyone deserves a second chance :)

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I would forgive him, it was a mistake and he was maybe not honest straight away but had the courage to tell you the truth in the end. It was also a mistake which he made at the very beginning of a relationship when he didn't realise that you were going to be the love of his life and his soulmate.

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Only your heart can tell you what to do. In my gamma's words if you forgive you have to forget, so my inky advice is that you find out if you can come out of this and truly trust him and put it behind you. Good luck to both of you

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