What is considered as rape? I feel extremely conflicted about something thats been happening between me and this guy (whose name and relation to me shall remain unsaid). Ive told him no multiple times and on different occasions but somehow I end up letting him have his way. I guess I did start it, he made me feel comfortable talking about my sex life without feeling so guilty about it..I let things happen that probably shouldn't have and I probably could have done more to stop it, I regret all of this but do I even have the right to call that rape??