Cheating...

If you found out your guy/girl is sleeping with someone else, is the 'someone else' just as bad or worse than your partner? Considering the 'someone else' may have been told things by your partner, would they really be that much at fault? But considering you would love your partner, you would also be more forgiving to them and blame the other more harshly than really should be blamed. For example, your boyfriend could be sleeping with a girl, telling her he's single, he's only with you for the kids/job/house whatever, how happy this girl really makes him, how they will be together one day. Basically just stringing this girl along. But that's all lies and he actually goes home every night to his happy family. Pretty shitty for the other girl AND the girlfriend, right? another example, your boyfriend could be being honest with this other girl about the fact he is with you, but there's just something. And the cheating still happens. Regularly. With the other girl knowing full well the whole truthful situation. Now the guy is still shitty and the girl is pretty shitty. So how come everywhere I look, the person your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating WITH, is always the whore? or slut? or home wrecker? Shouldn't it be the person who IS cheating getting all the backlash? I honestly feel sorry for some of these people who are the victims of cheating, but also those who are lied to, get feelings for, and believe the guy who is cheating. I would hate them both, but in the grand scheme of things it's still all the blame of the cheater!!