I'm having a boy but....

So yesterday I found out I'm having a boy. Don't get me wrong I'm so happy as this will be my first. I can't help but feel like my husband's family ruined it for me.. since I found out I was expecting, they've told me it's a boy because they don't have girls in this family. My mother in law automatically started calling it a "him" and started knitting boy shoes. She even told me to skip my anatomy scan because she was sure it was a boy. I feel they stuck that in my head and didn't let me wonder about the sex. I know it's dumb but I can't help it... it's just so annoying. When I told them it was a boy yesterday, she said "see? I was right" And my father in law got upset because it's another boy.. Like wtf people leave me alone! Initially I always wanted a boy first so he can take care of his little sister. (I was hoping I'd have a girl and a boy like my brother and I lol ) Ugh would you be annoyed or upset?