Planning your own shower with no/minimal help?

Is anyone else planning their own baby shower with no/minimal help? I've seen a lot of people posting about how their relatives/friends are planning the entire thing for them. I'm curious how many people are/did plan their own shower. My mom is kind of helping me. Mainly she's just giving suggestions but my boyfriend and i (mainly just me because he's clueless lol) are making all the big decisions & paying for everything. My mom kinda just sends pictures of things she thinks would be cute or fun games. I don't want someone else to have control of our shower, even my mother, because I've been looking forward to this for so long & everyone has different tastes.

Anyone else? 😊