So my fiance and I have been together for 5 years, Engaged for 2. I still can't trust him. After about 3 years together he cheated on me once, but promise wouldn't do it again (not sure how far he went ) yet I am not over it that I myself cheated too.(only kissing and dating not sex; still a virgin) that isn't the only thing he can be cheap and make me pay for our dates (which I don't mind once in a while) and also the one vacation (after 5 years of relationship) I paid for hotel room and other expenses. Even though he offered to go to the vacation because he wanted to go and spend time with me.