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Question

My husband thinks I'm overly obsessed with our son? He's 4 months old. He gets mad and says I hover people when they hold our child, that I don't let him out of my sight, I spoil him, all I care about is him, says I'm crazy, etc. told me I can't use the excuse that "I carried him for 9 months and pushed him out" forever and that it's getting old. Just really mind blown by this conversation and don't know how to go or act about it???

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if my significant other ever said anything like that to me we would probably fight. like no I don't care if it gets old to you, that baby was made, and grew inside of my body, I risked my life pushing him out. I have a physical connection to it that you do not.

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Shoot my son is 17 months old and I still rarely let anybody take him out of my sight. Of course he's your world, men just don't seem to get how strong a mothers bond is with their babies

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I do the same thing and I tell my S.O the same thing "you didn't carry him and it's my baby you will never know what it feels like to carry him and push him out you just don't have the same connection." I'm already a protective person he's a baby he can't tell me if something happened yet so yes he has to have either me or his dad around when he's older it won't be so bad

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I mean, I'll probably hover too. I dorky want people kissing my baby or anything like that.

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if you're a ftm that's not all it's a mothering tool usually it will simmer out by 7-10 months so what if you're over protective if my so said this i would be upset but I'm sure my man will be just as protective

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