cheating husband?

Question

how did you find out your husband was cheating? I have a feeling my husband is cheating he's been acting diffrent and we haven't had sex for almost a month which isn't normal . of course when I asked him if anything is wrong he tells me no. He has been emotionally detached I don't know what to do. I can't help but think he might be cheating ...

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I came home from work one night and he had his bags packed to move in with the other woman. I was clueless.

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My husband was emotionally detached, he always said he wants us to talk but he could never get to what he wanted to say. The guilt was eating at him. He always made excuses and was always out for ridiculous errands, just so he couldn't be with me.  i also became withdrawn, angry and I guess I knew something was up and I needed proof. I was no interested in intimacy and he would start a fight when I would refuse him sex. One morning he pinned me down I begged him to let me go, and eventually he did. After work I went to our Bishop and his wife and told them about the incident. A week later he told me he had sex with some girl and got her pregnant. He still has sleepless nights and reassures me almost daily that it won't happen again.

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My gut told me, then I started noticing little things that were different about his behavior. There's been 1 physical affair that I know about (I suspect at least 1 more but he won't confirm and I have no proof) and 1 emotional (recently). He never came clean, I had to literally do the detective work and confront him and even then he was hard pressed (at first) to come clean. Im not the type of woman to beg a man to stay with me, I always said I'd leave if I were cheated on...but I couldn't do it. He was extremely remorse the first time (I can even tell you the 1st night they went out and had sex bc he came home guilty as hell and at that point I had NO idea) so we worked through it and even got married (just FYI it NEVER goes away-you will always think about it and it will literally take your breath away and crush your chest every time you let the thoughts consume you for a long long time) fast forward 4 years and there was the recent incident....he didn't seem so remorseful for this one at first, I told him to leave and I want a divorce and the way things went (I wish I could explain) it's like God showed me his hand and this was meant for a growing experience in my husbands journey to faith. I saw it clear as day and I told him, I know your going to think I'm crazy (at the time he was anon believer) but I don't feel like this is even about us....after a couple weeks my husband said he wanted to go to church and the rest is history.....
Im sorry if your husband is cheating

cheating husband?

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