I had my baby shower for my son on Saturday... I invited about 40 people. 20 were supposed to show up. On Friday 10 canceled because "things came up" and an hour before the party 5 more people canceled. Most of them were fake or made up excuses.... I spent so much money on desserts and snacks for the kids and decorations and games and we didn't even get to use any of it... I could have saved that money for things I needed for him..only 5 people came. I'm broken hearted....