I'm pregnant with my 4th child. I'm very excited and happy even though I know its going to be a handful but my boyfriend suggested getting an abortion because he says he feels like his job isn't very secure and we're not in the position to bring another baby into this world right now. It hurt me a little especially because I'm very against haven't abortions but I honestly don't know what to do. One minute he says he's happy then the next minute he tells me to think about it. What would you girls do?