I just need to rant.

WHY can't people who aren't family understand this. If you aren't related to me & I barley talk to you due to the fact that you're my best friends mom who threw her out after my best friend told you that she was so depressed she didn't wanna continue her life. what makes you think to text me and ask me 100 questions about baby then get mad because I haven't announced the gender yet even after I nicely explain that I'm waiting for an extra ultrasound then get pissed at me and tell me "but I'm planning the baby shower" uh no you're not? That's weird. Then get more upset when they find out my baby won't be going over there due to the INSANE amount of secondhand smoke & lack of responsibility. Maybe im a shitty person idk but ugh