Trying to adjust to this lovely hair!

I love my hair so much but I didn't think I would get so much criticism 🙄🙄 My boyfriends mom said ""How old r u? That look is for kids. If u were 16 years old like ok. But ur 21?? I like color but not like that! u honestly look like a crazy person no offense."

I just thought hair was hair and if anything ppl might think it's bold or cool. But nope. I feel more judged than ever now that it stands out. Now I am trying to developer thicker skin and this f u attitude 😭😭