long story short ..last year I learned my husband's ex of 3 years and he had been texting..emailing and talking on the phone our entire relationship (3 years). she's several states away and after I confronted him he said they were just friends and that he didn't tell me because he thought I wouldn't understand... mind you I've never been the jealous type and am fine with friends of opposite sexes as long as significant other knows and is OK..... fast forward a year.... my husband told me he told her to stop communicating with him.... I'm still struggling with trusting him and I'll admit I check his phone and email.... well 4thI see on Facebook his ex is now married as of last year and changed her last name. her new email is shown up in my husband's email search engine 😞 she's recently posted a picture them on her Facebook publically . the caption was not directed towards my husband and only indicated she missed riding the sand dunes ( the picture was of them at the dunes together 5 years ago. we have been together 4 years. ive asked my husband again if they are talking and he said no. im hesitant to tell him about the picture she posted as i guess im looking for more ammo. i just don t know what to do right now. Tell him or wait? im just ao frustrated with the whole situation because part of me feels I don't get a straight answer from him. but the other side feels that if he did stop communication with her then this shows me shes still hanging on. uhhggg....idk what to do. opinions? guidance please? theres wsy more to the story which is making it hard for me to trust him but its too much to write...but no I don't feel he still loves her and no he has not cheated on me. I was facing a death in the family when I discovered they were talking and I felt abandoned by him during that time and with all the emotions I was going through I felt the one person who should be fully trusted with me was lying to me for a few years by talking with his ex behind my back.