hubby says it's a "chore"

i've pushed my poor SO to the point of him feeling like ive turned sex into a chore now.. he's even gone soft on me a couple of times because he felt too "pressured" .. he said it makes him nervous because all he can think about is getting me pregnant and worries if i'll leave or be angry if he doesn't "perform" correctly. this was really a big wake up to me and made me feel so horrible! if this month isn't my month, i may just take a few steps back and let conceiving come naturally to give me and hubby a break.. it can be so exhausting!

please tell me i am not the only one going through this with my SO. 😢