how do I get rid of the fear of sex?

Question

I'm 20 years old and I really do want to have sex with my bf but I am just so nervous! Does anyone have any tips on how to get rid of the fear of having sex?

Answer

If you're fearful, you're just not ready, and there's nothing wrong with that. It should happen organically. If you feel safe and loved in the moment, you shouldn't fear anything.

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1) Cover Your Bases: Protection. I prefer a copper IUD because I hate additional hormones. They can have serious effects on happiness, sex drive, and beauty. Condoms. A period and ovulation tracker, and routine STD testing if you would prefer to go "natural" at some point with him. 
2) Find the Right Time: make sure that you're relaxed and feeling good about him when you decide to have sex for the first time. Let him focus on your body. He will be stimulated enough by the idea of taking your virginity. Start experimenting and giving him the proper attention as you begin to acclimate. 
3) Understand that this is a biological imperative. Sex has to be desirable to encourage procreation. Within a very short amount of time it will become not only a physical pleasure, but a validating, fun means of self-expressing and shared energy.

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Ask yourself if you want to and if you think you're ready. If you're ready start with handjobs and oral. If you're scared you're not ready xx

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I think you're fearful because you know it's not right. Wait!! It's not worth having sex to just have sex. Wait until you're ready for all that could come with it like pregnancy etc.  sex does not equal love.

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