Stretch marks!!!😓

I'm really trying to avoid them this first pregnancy, I'm 9 almost 10 weeks. I been told to eat right & moisturize my stomach as well with some coconut oil, It wasn't planned so as you can see I'm worried about the after math, my insecurities get in the way a lot. I don't feel like hearing stupid comments on "Well that's what comes with having a baby" cause with these hormones I'll probably cuss you out lol but many women get through pregnancy w/o getting them & im just trying to do the same😓Any recommendations on how to get through this?