Would you feel this way?

A little while back I ended a friendship with a girl who started to act very rude towards me and was becoming flat out mean to others. I was very hurt by how she acted/some things she did. A few of my friends, and even a few people I didn't know that well, spoke to my character and comforted me saying I wasn't like her and that I'm a really good friend and nice person. I also told my friend of a few years who would always call me "bestie". I felt like she didn't really care how I felt and didn't say anything that spoke to how I've always been a good friend. All she asked was if the girl ever talked bad about her. Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm not fishing for compliments, but after people that didn't even know me as well spoke to how well I treat people, I feel like my friend maybe isn't that great of a friend, especially since I was visibly upset. Thoughts?