Boyfriend mentally cheating ???? HELP PLS

Alright y'all long ass story I'm sorry, but I really need y'all's help. I'm stuck deciding what to do and I need some advice! So story time!!!

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I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we've been very happy. But for the last month, he has been hanging out with this other woman, let's call her "Annie".

Annie and my boyfriend have a couple college classes together (they're everyday classes except Friday) so they're always together for a couple hours.

They also hang out outside of school which really bothers me.

I've heard things from all my friends that also go to college with Annie. She's a "hoe" and "she takes everyone's boyfriends". My friends have told me that she doesn't care about anyone or anything and takes whoever/whatever she wants. If she wants someone's boyfriend, she'll have them kind of thing.

I have told my boyfriend that I feel uncomfortable with them hanging out outside of school because of the repetition she has. I understand being with her in class because that's class, but outside of that I didn't want it.

#1 Lie: My boyfriend works at an amusement park so after work he said that he was going over to her house to hang out with friends. I said "OK just text me when you get there!" Never did though.

Then I did some digging (because we share locations) and I found out that the house belonged to a really old guy which didn't make sense if he was "hanging out with friends" there.

#2 Lie: I then questioned him and he said that he was just hanging out with friends from around town because he wanted to make new friends. And I said okay, that's fine.

Then I realized that it just didn't make sense so I questioned him again. And that is when he finally told me that he was with Annie and a couple other friends. I asked him why. And he said that she was housesitting for the old guy and he supposedly said that she could have some friends over. And I told him again that I did not feel comfortable with them hanging out together even if it's with friends. And I let it slide.

Fast forward a couple weeks later, I get a couple text messages and calls from my best friend's telling me that my boyfriend was playing volleyball with Annie (she's a volleyball player) on his side of town. That's weird because my boyfriend lives way out in the sticks and she lives in the middle of the town so it's like a 30 minute drive out there. And again it's like 11 PM.

I just found that a little strange so I texted him and asked him why he was playing volleyball with Annie. He didn't answer me. I texted him good night then I went to bed.

The next morning he texted me and said that they were just hanging out and playing volleyball and I said "OK again I don't feel comfortable with you hanging out with her". And that was that. I let it slide again and I told him if I catch him again with her outside of school I'm going to be done. That we're going to break up.

Fast forward to a couple days ago, my boyfriend is a photographer so he needed pictures done for class. And I said OK but I have work until 5pm so will have to do it after that and he said okay.

Didn't hear from him all day that day, which was weird and I texted him but never got a response so I thought he was just busy with school work.

Then I get a text message at 7pm from my best friend and she told me to look at Annie's Snapchat. I saw that my boyfriend was taking pictures of Annie for his photography class.

I was furious and hurt. I was so angry at the time that I didn't talk to him for about a day and a half. When I finally talk to him I told him how it was very disrespectful that he continued to hang out with Annie when I told him that I didn't feel comfortable with them together.

Then he had the audacity to say "she's a really nice person. I don't understand why you hate her so much. Just come and hang out with her for the day and if you don't like her then that's fine. Just do it for me."

OHHHH HELL NO.

I was absolutely pissed reading that. I said back "I do not hate Annie at all, I'm just not very fond of her. No I don't want to meet her or talk to her or even see her. And I'm not gonna do it for you and I'm not gonna do it for me this is not up for a bargain."

I hate how he tried to defend her. Like he didn't even care about my feelings at all. Again I'm hurt and pissed at the same time.

Since then I've been very distant. I don't want to break up with him because I love him very much and he makes me very happy, but I don't know how else to get my point across to him.

I understand if he wants to have other girlfriends or play the field but let's do that separated.

I don't want to be together and all of our friends know that you're hanging out with other girls and doing things that I don't know about and here I am looking like the stupid one. Y'all know what I mean?

Am I over reacting? My parents and friends all want me to break up with him but again I love him. I'm just so confused.

Do you all think he might be mentally attracted to her?

Me: Short black hair, hazel eyes, short,

Annie: Long blonde hair, blue eyes, taller

If y'all could give me some insight or advice on what y'all think, I would very much appreciate it!

Thank y'all so much!!!