Should I be feeling insecure or low because I found a ton of porno on my mans phone!?

Question

So I got the IUD in and lately it's been giving me these excruciating painful cramps . So I'm never in the mood to shove a 7inch penis and provoke the pains some more, but I went on my mans phone a couple nights ago and he has porno everywhere !! On safari on tumblr and pictures saved ! 
And seeing that made me feel some type of way 😢

Answer

If you're not in the mood for sex it's okay, but you can't control what your partner does with his body. He's made it clear he wants sex. You've made it clear you're not interested because of the pain. He has needs and took care of them. It's not like he's turning to porn opposed to sex with you. It's clear he wants to have sex with you but respects you're not interested. He's not hooking up or texting other girls. There's no real intimacy or emotional connection between him and the girls in the porno. You have nothing to feel insecure about hun.

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I don't mean to sound rude, and I know this may be difficult for you, but he has needs too. You can't expect him to wait it out until you feel better.

Answer

Better him turning to porn than to someone else, he has needs too

Should I be feeling insecure or low because I found a ton of porno on my mans phone!?

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