I am pregnant with my first, but I believe you like everyone (even family) as an individual. So I don't buy it when parents say they don't have a favorite kid.

I am definitely the "good kid." My brother is almost 40 years old and my parents still do everything for him. They give hand over fist and they aren't rich. It drives me crazy. And they act like, "he needs it. You don't." Which is not true. I just act like an adult and he doesn't.

Anyway, please tell me parents really aren't so blind that they "love you both/all the same!"