Mother's husband is a total jerk.
He spit in mine and my sister's faces saying that the dishes weren't done last night, even though I did them besides a pan and a pot because him and my mom didn't eat so I left it for them, and saying were lazy pieces of sh!t and don't do anything around the house which is a big a$$ lie and said that they better be done every night or he'll hurt us and make us do them🙄 he complained about us to my mom because they were apparently not done (as I said, those two dishes) and asked why she allowed us to leave before they were done. Well, when I got up this morning there were only those 2 fu**ing dishes bc no one was up, and second, I was only home for like 2 minutes because I was rushed to leave the house so how was I supposed to do them in two minutes!? I've been basically gone since 9 am-10:30 pm and he hasn't done anything besides scream and complain about everything while he sits on his damn @$$ and complain about everyone else.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.