Please Help!

I Was Involved In A Big Disaster Over The Last Couple Of Days, I've Dealt With Hurricane Harvey, & A lot Of Flooding And It Damaged My Home Inside, I've Been Trying To Keep My Family Safe & Stress Free. And On Top Of All Of That I Just Want My Boyfriend To Have A Conversation With Me, Just So I Know He's There For Me. He's Been Checking Up On Me To See If I'm Okay And That's All He's Really Been Doing. We Only Had A 5 Minute Conversation And That's It. I Was Venting To Him And Telling Him The Things I've Been Going Through For The Last Couple Of Days And It Seems Like All His Attention Is On Video Games & Friends! So How Can I Explain To Him How I Feel Without An Argument Because I'm Very Upset And Hurt? And He's The Type Of Person Who Never Owns Him To His Shit Unless He Really Thinks He's Wrong So Its Really Hard Trying To Argue With Him Because We Never See Things Through!