Anyone Else?

I'm envious of women who are pregnant and its all belly. I feel like every part of my body has grown along with my belly. My thighs are huge, even my calves are huge. My arms are big, my face is round and the double chin is real now. My whole body has grown with my belly 😐 I could have done better with my eating and I know that but after talking to my doctor about my 30+ lb weight gain when I was overweight technically to start, she told me not to worry about it. She said she strongly believes some women gain and some hardly gain at all. She said the baby isn't measuring ahead and she's healthy so not to worry about the scale. I just feel like I screwed myself by gaining all this weight in other areas and I'm never going to like my body again, it's hard enough to bounce back after having a baby but let alone all this extra weight in other areas.. I just feel blah. I would really like an estimate on how much of the weight is just fluid I'm retaining due to the heat though, along with weight of extra blood and the baby herself. The most irritating thing to hear is "you're pregnant you have an ecxuse" but I feel like it's not an excuse when I see plenty of women that just have bellies. okay sorry for being whiny lol