Boring in bed?

Question

My boyfriend told me i am boring in bed.. He is wayy more experienced in sex than me. He told me he understands i'm not very experienced and that he will "teach me" but i don't want to be boring. I don't go on top because i don't know how.. So i will work on that, but other than that how can i be not boring ? Lol

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Ask him what he wants to try and if you are okay with it then go for it

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1) practice makes perfect (you'll learn new techniques as you go, just like you did when you first started kissing), 2) some guys find it hot to be in the "teacher" roll, so play along with it if that suits you.
It's never fun to be told "you're boring," and it sounds like his statement is bothering you a bit (sometimes bfs lack finesse with their words and end up hurting our feelings when they don't mean to).  Just remember that having a good connection/chemistry with the person and feeling confident are what lead to great sex.  If his comments start to get in the way of that (or they just bother you in general), talk to him about expressing his desires in a way that doesn't hurt your self esteem or make you feel unsexy.  For instance, he could say, "Hey, we should try *fill in the blank.*" Instead of, "You're boring."  Just remember that regardless of your experience level, you are awesome and you are sexy (and he knows it too because he's dating you!).
And as positions go, I sometimes find that being on top is difficult because I have short legs and can never seem to get enough leverage to move much when I'm up there.  I do usually spend a little time in that position to give him a good visual, but then we switch into a different position when we really get going.  Not every position is for every couple, so it's fun to try some different ones to see what you like.

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First time I had sex with my husband we did everything except for oral and anal that night. From the beggining, I was so comfortable with him that I literally opened up lol. Just try to relax and have fun, Sex doesn't have to be taken so seriouse. It shouldnt matter about who is more experienced, I did things that night that I had never done before and yet I was a "pro" at it lol. no I'm jk,  we were both a mess but its the head bumps and thrashing around that makes it so hot and fun :)

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Research positions and just be bold some guys find it really hot when you start things ups 😉

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