When will mothers/mother in laws learn that things have changed since they've given birth?

Or that you're allowed to make choices for your children that differ from theirs? Like no, I don't think it's okay to eat unpasteurized eggs and drink beer while pregnant, etc, things are different and I don't have to do things the way you do them. Stop acting like it's okay, and you're right, just because you once gave birth. New studies come along in the... idk, 20 years?! since you've been pregnant. And don't give me this you're an rn crap mil, you're not an obgyn doctor/nurse or even a pediatrician- so shocker, I'm going to take my obgyn doctor's advice more seriously. 😒🙄