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Hey guys, okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years, our relationship is amazing! He always knows how to put a smile on my face, I can see myself with him for the rest of my life, but our sex life sucks! We only have sex maybe once or twice a month! He is 31 and I am 24 could it maybe his age? Does he not find me attractive anymore? I don't understand, and no I do not think he is cheating we are with each other every chance we get.

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Ugh I'm in the same boat. I'm 26, he's 35 and it's MAYBE once a month.

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My bf and I have been together a little over 2 years and we only have sex once a week. Sometimes we skip a week and end up having sex twice in a month. I know he isn't cheating on me and he still finds me attractive. And he says the sex is amazing. But we don't live together and he works 2 jobs 6 days a week. I only can see him Friday nights and sometimes he really is more tired than usual so I always tell him I don't want him to have sex with me just to make me happy when he isn't 100% up for it. He definitely has a lower sex drive than me.

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31 is not old enough by a long shot to have an impact on his drive. I'd say maybe he's got some hormonal imbalances. Does he take care of himself? How's his health and weight? Mental health? Was he always like this?

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Shouldn't be his age yet he's still young.. talk to him tell him you need and want more... be honest

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why not initiate it once in a while? it's a win win most guys think it's hot when the girl initiates it and you get to have sex 
I always initiate sex, if I didn't we'd only have sex once a month, he works long hours so hes pretty lazy when he gets home but once I initiate it, he just takes full control I love it!

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My husband doesn't initiate all that often and I don't think it's because he's not attracted to me, I just think it's because he's tired and lazy at times. I'm generally the one to initiate and he never turns me down! I just put something sexy on and come on to him. It works every time and then I can have as much sex as I want

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sometimes men get lazy & they want you to initiate instead of them always initiating maybe hes waiting for you too try it and see what his response is hopefully more sex!

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Any another thing is, when I ask him what's up, he always says he's tired, so maybe you all are right, he's just lazy lol I will try what y'all have told me! Thank you!

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