Am i right to be upset?

Question

Am i right to be mad? My drunk husband tried to be intimate with me but during the process says to me that i have a bad smell. It shut me off because i just had his 4th child 2 1/2 weeks ago i had my 3rd csection/tubal so my incision gets a smell because i still have somewhat fat covering it. Then he asks me why im avoiding him and ignoring im after he told me i smelled.

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You shouldn't be getting intimate 2 1/2 weeks after having a baby.
But as far as your husband's comments go, sit down and talk to him when he's sober.

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You can hemorrhage or get an infection, please don't be having sex until you 6 week check up.  You're not even supposed to have a tampon in you let alone a penis and semen, you're even more vulnerable with it being a 3rd c section. I really don't know what else to say because what he said was rude, but he was drunk so what do you expect ya know?

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Yea I would be hurt too. Tell him why your upset and you really shouldn't be having sex that soon after your c section could cause an infection or issues.

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Tell him what he said and it hurt. Also you shouldn't have sex this soon after having a baby. It isnt safe.

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Remind him of what he said, though he was hurtful to you but correct him in love and tell him how painful it was for him to say that especially when he is aware of what is happening in your life. If he had said it kindly at a different time maybe you would fill so hurt. Please do talk to him and explain why you are behaving the way you are.

Am i right to be upset?

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