Should I go ahead with my pregnancy?

Question

I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm 25 been with my partner for 6 years and we have been engaged since Feb.
I have already had an abortion when I was 20 and I will never go through that again it was one of the worst experiences of my life.
We are both close with our family.
His  concern is that we don't yet live together, or have a house together and thinks it's going to be really hard once there is a baby because of all the expenses and thinks we are not ready.
We both work full time jobs and I also have an online clothing business.
I'm really stuck and don't no what to.
Has anyone had a similar situation?

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You already said that you cant do another abortion because your first one was hard. So, that answers that question. You have a job, a home and a close net family. So, even if your spouse don't want to be there for whatever reason, you can do it on your own. And I'm sure your family will help. Also, he is most likely scared but I'm sure he'll help take care of y'all bundle of joy.

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its never the right time for a baby. i understand your man may be stressing about financials because thats what most men do, but honestly the struggle is all worth it. my cousin was preggo and was going to give her girl up for adoption, because she was 19 going to school and she wasnt living with her man. but on the day of her birth she couldnt do it. and now she has a beautiful girl who takes after her and she couldnt imagine her life any different. if. she can do it at suvh a young age and still graduate shool, and get her own place, you can too.

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In the end, you have to do what is best for you. My sons father was never present, we lived with my mom for the first 1.5 yrs of his life. I'm not as financially stable as I'd like to be, but I can't imagine not having my son. He's happy and healthy and loved. I was scared to death when he was born (worried and feeling guilty that he wasn't born into a traditional family) but it's all working out. I always envisioned myself being married before having kids but my life didn't work out that way and it's ok. 
It seems like you and your SO are stable and have good heads on your shoulders and can give the baby a good life. Personally, if I was in your position I'd absolutely keep your baby. But it's all your decision and what you and your SO can handle.

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From personal experience from someone I know which went through this, she had an abortion because her husband at the time didn't want it and she was completely heart broken and then years down the track he said he wanted a baby and she didn't due to what she went through anyway long story short she left him because he was not the one she needed in her life. 
When you are with a person you should be there for one another no matter what, you are pregnant and you are blessed from god, now you need to step up and be a mother. 
You are not a child at 25, my parents came to Australia with absolutely nothing no money at all and my mum was pregnant and had me also at the time and they worked hard and now we are a happy family. 
No one is ever ready in life for anything.. don't let it be a mistake you aborting that poor innocent baby.

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you will make it work because you have too.. you can do this

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I had a very similar situation. I was 23 and I was with my baby's father for five years when I found out I was pregnant. We were not living together, both renting apartments, worked full time, and I was working on paying student loans. It was never a question for me because I simply couldn't imagine having an abortion. He was very unsure about it. After a few weeks of letting it sink in he decided he wanted to be in his child's life. We eloped, moved in together and had a beautiful boy. Yes finances are difficult but that's a part of life, yeah money is going to be tight. You figure it out. We are so in love with the child we had together! It is your decision if you keep the baby and it seems like you've already made that choice! So congratulations and good luck

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