Relationships are hard.

I'm honestly just looking for some advice on what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months but we've known each other for years and he struggles with depression and everytime I bring up anything wrong with our relationship he just says how much of a screw up he is and it really hurts. He's out at college and he never texts me during the day I barley get a text at 9 o'clock at night. I love him very much and I don't plan on ending it just because of this. I just need help on what I can do. Advice??