Past Frustrated! Fed the fuck up! Help me please!

Carleigh

Okay. So my boyfriend and I both work. I work at an Arby's as a shift manager. He does roofing. His job is under the table and not very regular. My job is very regular and pays most of the bills. He expects me to keep his laundry done up. which, no big deal. I really don't mind. But in turn I expect him to keep the trash taken out. I've expressed this so many times to him that I'm done. If there's one thing we always fight about its cleaning. He never takes the trash out. The only time he does it is if I come home and start bitching and yelling about it. Then I still end up taking it out. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but I'm at my breaking point with it. I clean the whole apartment by myself all week every week. On top of working 40+ hours. He helps with NOTHING EVER. I'm so stressed out ladies. I'm about to leave him. And no it's not just because he be won't take out the trash. He never helps me with anything. And just expects shit to be done. And if I dont get to it soon enough hell say things like"Um, I have no clean fucking clothes for work. That's fucking nice." And other snide comments like that about everything. I'm done ladies. I'm fed the fuck up. I need his help. Despite how I feel sometimes, I'm not Superwoman. How do I get him to take me seriously?