I've been watching the show Insecure and I must say, I'm really amazed at how perfectly my romantic/dating life was depicted! The main character, Issa is going through a period in her life where she feels that expressing her sexual freedom by dating & having sex with multiple men is how she can become more "her".

She called it "ho-tation" a play off the word rotation. And babbbyyyy! I have one of my own. Currently I have 2 "boyfriends". I have sex with both, because they please me in different ways. I actually enjoy it, because it gives me the freedom to express different sides of myself and in turn get the kind of pleasure, attention and satisfaction that I really want.

I don't plan on living this way forever, but it makes me curious as to if I could actually make it work long term. Maybe in an open relationship, but I'm not sure if either guy would want that. I'm in a point right now where idk if I can commit myself to any man, because I just haven't found that one. So I don't see anything wrong with me juggling two guys. I feel like women should be able to have sex with whomever they please, hell women are freakier than men anyway and our desires deserve to be met!